Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak. James 1:19
If we ever fancied that we could get along without God's Spirit, even for a moment, we probably did not make this mistake in connection with the way we listen and talk. Who has not said on any number of occasions, "If I had only listened!" or "Why can't I keep my big mouth shut?" If James had said, "Let everyone be quick to speak and slow to listen," we would have no problem at all.
Quick to listen. Listen to what? Events in the days of our loved ones, helpful counsel, the whole truth, both sides of a question, a plea for help, a request for forgiveness -- all of these, of course. But as we listen carefully, we also hear utterances of disappointment, pleas for love, and sighs of sorrow that we alone can answer. These are special messages from our God, who cries in the pain of the world, "I am hungry ... thirsty ... in prison ... sick."
Slow to speak. About what? A friend's shortcomings, office gossip, dissatisfaction with church, school, and community -- all of these, of course. But here James is counseling us to "count to 10" before talking back in a budding argument. Our Savior had these words written of Him: "No deceit was found in His mouth. When they hurled their insults at Him, He did not retaliate; when He suffered, He made no threats" (1 Peter 2:22-23). His example and power are ours that we may follow in His steps, in the way of peace.
PRAYER: Lord Jesus Christ, let me listen and speak in love. Amen.
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