We may think of being neighborly as mostly a warm-weather activity, but there are plenty of helpful things we can do at any time of year. Drawing inspiration from Don Everts’ book, The Hopeful Neighborhood: What Happens When Christians Pursue the Common Good, we can connect with those who live nearby to create a more hopeful neighborhood.
While personal issues may keep us inwardly focused, we shouldn’t let that dampen our enthusiasm toward those who live closest to us. Everts reminds us that “While it is true that Christians throughout history have pursued the common good … Our current reputation would suggest that somewhere along the line we Christians have forgotten that we are created and called to pursue the common good.”
It’s about being there for others. Case in point: “We moved to our neighborhood seven years ago, and despite a multi-year pandemic, we build more connections by just being available. We haven’t done anything big or elaborate-just said yes to invitations, spent time outside, committed to remembering our neighbors’ names, and looked for opportunities to build on common connections. And now I would say our neighborhood feels like home. Our neighbors are the people we call when we need anything. We feel hopeful in our neighborhood, and you can, too, no matter what type of neighborhood you live in,” says Jennifer Prophete, director of The Hopeful Neighborhood Project from LHM.
Simple gestures like inviting neighbors over to watch a sporting event can build rapport quickly. You may have found some friendly competition among neighbors who cheer on their favorite sports teams. Perhaps they don’t have the cable or streaming option of watching particular games. Giving them the chance to see their team in action in the Super Bowl or March Madness is a big deal to sports fans and a treat they’ll remember. For those outdoor-minded folks, cold weather fun like sledding, ice skating, or hockey can be topped off with an evening of getting warm by a fire pit, enjoying some mulled cider and good conversation.
No matter what time of the year it is, The Hopeful Neighborhood Project (HNP) is ready with ideas to assist you where you live. To learn more, go to hopefulneighborhood.org and request a FREE Starter Kit. It includes an “I Love My Neighborhood” journal, access to HNP’s inspiring online courses, an email subscription with hopeful tips, and free coaching/conversation from a helpful neighborhood facilitator.